Thursday, July 17, 2008

How To Be Cute???




Cute!Ever wanted to be cute? Cuteness is a quality that transcends trying to be like somebody else. True cute is about making the most of your sweet, friendly, and innocence nature and projecting it wherever you go. It is about being genuine, smiling and greeting others with delight and sharing warmth with friends, colleagues and people you meet on the street. Here's how to go about being cute.

1. Do not look goofy when you smile; just smile like you always do. Be cute and happy, but not over the top! Be yourself; don't pretend to be someone else!

2. Laugh heartily. As with smiling, laughter is a reflection of the soul. Laugh to feel good, laugh to cheer up others and laugh with others. Spread the need for more cheer and people will think that this is as cute as it gets.

3. Use eye contact. Eye contact is a way of engaging others directly. It shows interest, it shows that you are attempting to bring this person into your sphere and keep them there. Don't stare though, just use common sense and remember that it is about communicating with other people, not sucking them into your sphere of influence.

4. Have fun. Everyone likes a person who is fun, social, and outgoing!

5. Be interested in others. Attractiveness comes from being happy, vivacious and bubbly. This translates to being a person who engages others in conversation, takes an interest in what others say and shows a genuine concern for the other person's interests. Active listening is a very important part of appearing attractive to others.

6. Be as smart as you are. Being smart is not just about book-smarts; it is about using your mind to its fullest potential by discovering what you are good at and doing it really well. Do not act dumb because you misguidedly think this is cute. It is not cute; it is telling others that you can be overlooked and ignored when genuine opportunities for good things in life come your way. Live your life to its fullest potential by learning as much as you can and finding out as early on in life what you are good at doing.

7. Be well groomed. It is your choice as to what products you decide to groom yourself with and what labels you choose to wear. All that is important to remember is that a well-presented person will always appear attractive. Wearing clothes that make you feel good and a hairstyle that accents your best features are always a helpful step in boosting your personal confidence and this will shine through in your personality.

8. Dress comfortably.Wear comfortable clothes in your style, like a pair of form-fitting jeans- not too tight but then again not too loose either. Whatever you decide to wear make sure that it's cute and totally you because you don't want to be someone you're not. Wear lots of colors either pastel or bright.

9. Shyness isn't a bad thing. It gives you this kind of mysterious edge to you. People keep asking you questions and keep wanting to talk to you to got to know more. Shy, but sweet and bubbly people are absolutely adorable.

10. Don't be too loud. Period. If your voice is loud enough to be heard two rooms away, most likely you're being too loud.

WARNING
1. Do not change your voice to an annoying squeaky wanna be cute tone, people will see right through you!

2. Being cute is not about being a slave to fashion; nor is it about memorizing phrases from a TV show or popular book. It is about being the best person you can be and letting that shine forth.

3. If you are going to wear a thong make sure that you don't flash it to people. You don't want to be known as 'the slut'. You're too beautiful to have your g-string hanging out. If you're wearing low rise anything, then you're better off not wearing any underwear at all.

4. Don't change who you are just to be cute, fakes never are attractive.

Remember: being cute will take time..
Just practice the following : smile, be sweet, and be friendly.

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