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kalau lelaki tak ego dan perempuan tak tahu malu,

rasanya apa akan terjadi pada manusia ni???

Lu fikirlah sendiri...

so, koang layan lagu ni, B yang perkenalkan pada I...
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p/s: erm, kalau lelaki tak tahu malu pun susah kan???
ade cerita yang memalukan nanti i cite..

LOVE

Love is blind...

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7 things!

You want a rewarding and fulfilling marriage? You can have one, but you need a dose of reality first. Here are things you need to say “I do” to before walking down the aisle…

1. Do you have a sense of humor?
A sense of humor is vital, and the first person you have to laugh at is yourself. Consider this- men and women have to hook up on some level to propagate the species, proving God has a sense of humor. He obviously assumed we would too.

2. Do you know you’ll have to work? Hard?
I solicited the opinion of dozens of women for this topic, and the feedback was unanimous. You have to be willing to work. Some women think if you’re a perfect match, your marriage shouldn’t be work. Those people are called divorcees. It’s true your marriage shouldn’t be work every hour of every day, but there will be days when your marriage will require extra energy (a term I prefer over “work”). Like Grandpa used to say, anything worth having is worth working for. Welcome to Marriage 101.

3. Do you realize marriage is not 50/50?
Gotcha! You figure you’ll give half, he’ll give half and you’ll meet somewhere in the middle. You poor, poor dear. The reality is, there will be some days you’ll give 90% and you may or may not get 10% back. There may be weeks or months that pass with the scales out of whack. Remember- you committed your whole life to him, and in your lifetime the scales will shift back in your favor. Interestingly, the scales will align faster if you abandon the scorecard and self-pity.

4. Do you have a general acceptance of your significant other’s shortcomings?
Does he leave the toilet seat up? Get over it. Are his table manners a fright? Look the other way. Is he a tight-wad? You better be at one with strict budgets. Try seeing your new hubby’s annoying habits as endearing. In addition to his positive traits, his quirks make him who he is. Figure out a way to truly accept the whole package- the good, the bad and the ugly.

5. Do you have expectations of your marriage or soon-to-be-spouse?
If you said “I do” to this one, start goggling divorce attorneys now. Fundamental expectations like being treated well, being faithful, or being honest are covered by your wedding vows. If you want a long lasting marriage, let go of any romance novel or Lifetime movie expectations you have. The men in Hollywood are actors. Real men, generally speaking, are not geared for romance and eloquent, loving speeches. With this attitude, you’ll better enjoy the thoughtful little things your new husband does. Lowered expectations and happily ever after go hand in hand.

6. Do you know comparisons are a death sentence for marriages?
Like fingerprints, marriages are unique and specific to the two individuals involved and the one-of-a-kind bond they create. Instead of scowling at your husband when your friend brags about the romantic vacation her husband took her on, just smile. Maybe your friend left out how her husband ogled other women on the beach or said something at dinner that made her cry. You never know what goes on behind closed doors- be secure in what you and your husband share and the knowledge that it works for you.

7. Do you know your fiancé is bilingual?
Read a couple books about how men communicate or have a sit-down with your aunts and grandma. We think we grasp the Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus concept, but we don’t. He may not say “I love you” 14 times a day, but he might fill your car when it’s out of gas, maybe he’ll cover you with a blanket when you’re cold, he may bring you a glass of wine when you’re in the tub, or he might listen to stories about the kids when he just wants to crawl in a hole and go to sleep. You have to learn to read, understand and appreciate man-speak.

In order for a marriage to be successful, reality can’t be sugar-coated. Long term commitments are not for the faint of heart. A lasting union takes a great deal of love, patience, true grit and guts. The benefits are countless. I’ll leave you to discover those on your own.

originally copied from lovingyou

wut a man actually wants/looks in a woman...

original article, click lovingyou.com

1. Dress for your body type
Just because it looks good in the magazine or in the shop window, doesn’t mean it will suit you and your body. Whether you have a tiny waist and large hips, long torso and short legs or tend to be a bit round all over, there are things you should wear – and things you shouldn’t. The trick here is to go shopping with someone objective, someone who will be honest about what looks good on you. If all else fails, invest in a session with a personal shopper. They will save you from many fashion missteps and teach you what works best for your body type.

2. Highlight your best features (and downplay the less favorable ones)
Make-up isn’t for everyone, but that doesn’t mean you can’t dabble. There are simple ways to shine the spotlight on your best features and minimize the ones you don’t want him to focus on. Head to your local department store and ask them for a makeover. Yes, they will encourage you to buy things, but at the end of it, you’ll know how to show off your high cheekbones, while making the dark circles under your eyes disappear.

3. Take care of your skin
Many of us are not born with flawless skin. But even if dewy and glowing aren’t what stare back at your in the mirror, do what you can with what you have. Wash the make-up off before you hit the pillow, moisturize, wear sunscreen (always), and splurge on a session with an aesthetician so you can learn what products best suit your skin type.

4. Embrace the gym
Whether you’re trying to lose that last ten pounds or you just like that post-workout glow you get after your kickbox class, exercise is your friend, especially if you want to find – and keep a guy. It will keep you in shape, boost your confidence, tone you up in all the right places and just make you feel good.

5. Think positive
If you have a positive attitude, you have a better chance of attracting a date. “What goes on in your head is one of the most important things that can make you more dateable,” MacDonald says. The more positive you feel, the happier you will be and the more pleasant you’ll be to spend time with.

6. Know how to flirt
Flirting is all about creating a rapport and making a connection with someone, ideally, someone whom you’d like to get to know better. Not comfortable flirting? Practice wherever you go — the more you do it, the easier it will become.

7. Be a good listener
No one wants to date someone who makes them feel boring. You don’t have to jump up and down every time he opens his mouth, but pay attention to when he talks. “Be sincerely and genuinely interested in what the other person is saying,” explains MacDonald.

8. Have a hobby and interests
In order to have something to talk about and an identity outside that of your potential significant other, you need a life of your own. This could be a book club, pottery class or weekend mountain bike races. Regardless of the activity, do something for you, that you enjoy so you aren’t so wrapped up in him that you drive him insane.

9. Be a balanced conversationalist
Some people dominate the conversation, some people stay quiet. Others ask so many questions they make you feel like you’re under investigation by the FBI. Being a good conversationalist means having the right balance of talking, asking and listening.

10. Exude confidence
Obviously, confidence doesn’t grow on trees, and unless you count the liquid variety (i.e. vodka), it doesn’t come in a bottle either. But if you feel good about yourself, you will be more attractive to the opposite sex. The more confident you are, the less desperate you will appear. And we all know that desperation does not usually lead to a full dance card.

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It is love, not reason, that is stronger than death.

Top 10 dating guide books-lovingyou.com

Get to a bookstore and find the 10 current best relationship guides on the market.

1. He's Just Not That Into You
by Greg Behrendt

This book tells the single-woman scenario of really digging a guy who is giving mixed messages. Behrendt is a former executive story editor for Sex and the City who, in this now-classic book, tells all of us women to stop kidding ourselves, let go and look for someone else who may actually feel the same way we do.

2. All Men Are Jerks - Until Proven Otherwise
by Daylle Deanna Schwartz

It's not male bashing. Written well before He's Just Not That Into You, it tells women how they create the jerks they later complain about by making men too important and not paying attention to his inexcusable behavior that tells you he's not that into you. The book's motto: If you want a man, get a life! We agree.

3. All the Rules
by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider

Why buy the original and the sequel when it's all in one volume? A compilation of "The Rules" and "Rules II", it's somewhat old-fashioned and rigid sounding, but really can help to bring some perspective to yourself and the people you choose to date.

4. Red Flags: How to Know When You are Dating a Loser
by Gary S. Aumiller

Alert! You must know the warning signs so that you will be prepared! The book lists 25 different categories of "Loser," from the Abuser to the Wanderer, and provides a set of quizzes for each type so that the reader can tell if her blind date really isn't worth pursuing. It's an invaluable bible for your dating arsenal!

5. Choosing ME before WE, Every Woman's Guide to Life and Love
by Christine Arylo

If you are looking for a great dating guide that can help women stop making the same mistakes we've been making for centuries, this book is a great resource. It's full of stories, insights and ME Reflections (questions that women can ask themselves to find their own true answers) and it's written from one girlfriend to another.

6. The 30-Day Heartbreak Cure
by Catherine Hickland

This is truly a great life/dating guide; it will make you the smartest chick on the block. Taken one day at a time, like any true recovery process, it's a plan for getting over him and back on your feet – no looking back.

7. Be Honest – You're Just Not That Into Him Either
by Dr. Ian Kerner

It's not as worn out a catch phrase as "He's just not that into you," but also a relatable, and thoughtfully written book largely about how women end up frustrated with the lack of response they're getting from men – forgetting they're not even that interested in these guys to begin with, and how we should stick with our standards.

8. Bad Boys: Why We Love Them, How to Live with Them and When to Leave Them
by Carole Lieberman, M.D.

Do you like bad boys? What girl secretly doesn't? Here is a practical, entertaining guide to the twelve male personality types generally seen as "bad boys" and analyzes behavior patterns. It also advises women who are currently involved with these types on how to save the relationship or when to leave it.

9. Why Men Love Bitches
by Sherry Argov

Do not be offended by the title – it's tried-and-true advice on how to be kind yet empowered. Argov writes, "The woman I'm describing is kind yet strong. She doesn't give up her life and she won't chase a man." Her sassy book is filled with scenarios and advice aimed at making women subtly stronger and self-empowered. Well, if that's being a bitch, I'm proud to be one!

10. Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man
by Steve Harvey

The concept behind this book is quite simple. According to Steve Harvey, women fail at relationships because they're asking other women for advice when no one but another man can tell them how to find and keep a man. He may have a point. Great advice, and entertaining – it really made us think, and will hopefully do the same for you!
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article originally from lovingyou.com

THE BEST WAYS TO UNDERSTAND A MAN

1. COMPLIMENT HIM. - Men like and need to feel attractive too. However, make sure that the compliments are genuine. If you like the way he looks in his favorite shirt, say so. Not only is it a boost to his confidence, but it lets him know that he's still attractive to you as well!

2. DON'T LET YOURSELF GO : This doesn't mean bending your looks to satisfy the whims of your man. And it doesn't mean refusing to wear a particular style that he likes. Women should make sure that they feel as sexy as they did on the day they met their mates. A few pounds here and there may not make a difference to your beau. But if you've gained over 100 lbs, first ask yourself if You are happy with it. If not, then do something about it - For You. A happier You makes for a happier "us".

3. HAVE A LIFE!: Make sure that you've got something going on the side. No, not someone or something. Activities, friends, and hobbies are all important in keeping you sane. It's fine to do things together. But no one can stand to be around someone 24 hours a day without there being tension from time to time. The phrase "absence makes the heart grow fonder" has a huge ring of truth.

4. DON'T BE A DOORMAT: Whoever coined the phrase that nice guys finish last, was actually onto something. While this doesn't mean that you should be rude or inconsiderate to your sweetie, it does mean that you should stand firm about things you believe in. Don't cave in to every whim for the sake of keeping your man around. In the end, it doesn't usually work anyway. Stand firm in your beliefs, and you'll maintain not only your integrity, but a healthy relationship.

5. HE DOESN'T REALLY WANT TO KNOW ALL ABOUT YOUR PAST: Sure, you've had honest dialogue about your previous racy adventures. But guess what? Men don't want to know everything you've done, and EVERYONE you've done it with. A little mystery helps keep some of the fire alive. And besides, there is nothing wrong with keeping some private things, private.

6. "I LOVE YOU" isn't always said with words: Once women understand that men show love in a variety of ways, women will happier. Recognizing loving gestures will definitely help get the point across. Sometimes those three little words are being screamed loud and clear, with actions instead.

7. "NOTHING'S WRONG" means, nothing is wrong: Sometimes that quiet, brooding type of man is simply having a quiet moment to himself. Women are the ones who ordinarily like to discuss and plan the details of almost everything. But men are more hands on. When they are quiet, it doesn't necessarily mean that something is wrong - only that they are thinking.

8. INITIATE SEX: Yes, sometimes men want women to be a bit more aggressive in the bedroom, especially if they tend to make the first move most of the time. Men do enjoy a chase. But after being together for a while, they need to feel wanted as well. Initiate sex a bit more often, and you could see dramatic improvements in your sex life.

9. "HOW WAS YOUR DAY?" doesn't mean "How was your day?”: As insensitive as it sounds, when men ask this question, they typically do not want a play-by-play of your entire day. Quite frankly, it's boring. And unless you have something specific you want to discuss with him, he really doesn't care about your coworker's son's Little League Game.

10. ALL BLACK SHOES LOOK THE SAME TO HIM: Of course this may be somewhat of an exaggeration. But face it, Ladies... Men typically are not offered as many styles in the same color as women are. Therefore, that strappy black sling back, is exactly the same as the peep toe black sling back.

Breakup Tactics

This article is originally from sheknows<---

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Some say the best way to break up with someone is by being honest. I beg to differ. In some instances, honesty is the best policy. In others - whether the boy is super nice or he's crazy horrible - it's best to employ the ideal tactic so you come out bigger, stronger and feeling fab.

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So when is it better to be honest with your reason or when to make something up to spare his feelings? Should you do it quick like a bandage or should you drag it out an make him break up with you? Just pick breakup level and go.

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Breakup Level: Super-Gentle

Who Applies: If he's a nice guy but is doing something weird that turns you off.

The best approach is to lie through your teeth. I know what you're thinking - this isn't right, but would you rather tell that man the truth and make him insecure for life? That's a hard thing to do and something that you may not want on your conscience. If the reason for you wanting a breakup is nothing major but you know it would hurt his feelings to find out, just have a heart to heart with him and tell him that you're not ready and he doesn't deserve you he's so amazing. I realize this is the infamous "it's not you, it's me approach," but he'll appreciate you for it in the long run.
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Breakup Level: Gentle

Who Applies: If he's an okay guy and you don't have a real reason, you just aren't into him.

Why go with the gentle approach, you ask? Well, it's simple – if you don't have a valid reason and you'd prefer not to have to explain why you're breaking up with said guy. It beats the awkward conversation, that's for sure. In this case, I'd talk to him face to face or over the phone and say something like, "I like you but it's just not the right time." Boiling it down to timing will make him sad, sure - after all, it is a missed opportunity - but he'll get over it in time.
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Breakup Level: Neutral

Who Applies: If neither you or him are not emotionally invested in this relationship.

This is when modern-day technology comes in. If you haven't been dating this guy long and you know neither you or he are attached to each other (you haven't formed that special bond where you'd miss him if he were gone), you can do the illustrious e-mail. You can either go with a long explanation, detailing why the relationship is just not happening. Or, you can write a quick line of reason. At either case, because neither of you are invested in coupledom with each other, this should go so smooth that he may even become a friend later on.
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Breakup Level: Mean

Who Applies: If he stands you up or does weird things that annoy you.

Say this guy is a big cheapo and you end up picking up the tab more often than not or he makes plans and flakes, that's how you know it's time to institute a little "mean." It sounds harsh, I know, but he deserves to be taught a little bit of a lesson being as dating dyslexic as he is. So this is what you do: talk to him face to face and tell him exactly how you feel (mention all of his faults because he deserves to know and you owe it to yourself to sound off). The honesty will be brutal - but in a good way.
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Breakup Level: Super-Mean

Who Applies: If he is just an unbelievably horrible date or does something so appalling you wish him the worst.

So what do you do if the guy you're dating is so disrespectful you don't wish to see him again? Text him something short, not at all sweet and to the point. If he is two-timing and lying about it, for instance, send him this message (of course after explaining why you're breaking up with him): "This is so not my style. I'm no longer interested. I feel sorry for you and the next woman you date." Okay, so that's way harsh, but you know what, that man had it coming. If he texts you back, don't even read it. Just delete it before you see a single word. Looking at it may hurt your feelings, make you feel guilty or start an all-out text war. Refrain, be the better person and move on.

4 Signs to tell if your boyfriend is a loser

Sign #1:
He’s Always Broke
Deadbeat boyfriends are notorious for having a million excuses about why they are constantly broke. The economy is bad, his former boss was a jerk, he’s waiting for the check to come in, etc. What they don’t have, however, is a plan to turn their financial situation around.
Sign #2:
He’s Lazy
Do you leave the house in the morning while he’s still under the covers and come home to find him parked on the couch? If he’s always on Facebook, playing video games, or even if it’s just a small thing like not replacing the empty toilet paper roll when it’s out, laziness and a supreme lack of motivation are definite signs of deadbeat behavior.
Sign #3:
He’s Erratic
You may love that he is a nonconformist, but if the guy you’re dating continually demonstrates shady tendencies, like disappearing for days, binge drinking, or staying out all night and refusing to tell you where he’s been, consider yourself warned.
Sign #4:
He Lets You Support Him
No matter how affectionate he is, do not allow your boyfriend to live with you and not pay at least half of the rent and shared expenses. Likewise, no self-respecting man would let his girlfriend always take him out to dinner without ever reciprocating. If your boyfriend allows you to support him or needs your help to accomplish even the most mundane of tasks, he might be classic DBB.
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So what do you do?
First, stop spending money on him and doing anything that he would otherwise have to pay someone to do. You may think that you’re helping, but, in the long run, by allowing him to mooch off of you (both financially and emotionally), you are simply enabling his behavior and giving him no reason to change. Instead, talk to him about how you feel and be firm that you are uncomfortable dating (or living with) someone that is unemployed (or broke or lazy.) Hopefully, if he has any sense, this should be enough to motivate him. However, if not, put him to work around the house and let him work off his share of responsibilities by playing a role that women have played for decades, that of the housewife. If you don’t decide to break-up, at the very least, you will have someone to cook you dinner and sign for your Ebay packages!
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articles taken from sheknows

Tips

Romantic Afternoon

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"Take your loved one to a place away from the hustle and bustle of town life. Take a blanket and place it under the trees lie and cuddle the entire afternoon and then watch the moon rise from behind a mountain, and remember how special the person you are with is!"

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p/s: Kalo lah kat Msia boleh wat cmni kan??? silap2, baru nak tebar blanket dah ade pegawai J*W* dtg... hehehehe...

LDT SMS

Imagine hearing the ding alerting you that you have a text... from him! “I can’t stop thinking about you” is all it says. How great would that feel? Well, guys love romantic messages, too. They want to know that you are thinking of them, that you can’t wait to see them, and that they are the greatest thing on earth. Here is a huge list of sweet text message ideas your guy is sure to love. Credit to loving you as usual..

• You’re hot
  
• Let’s kiss and make up
  
• Missing you…
  
• Can’t wait to kiss you, baby
  
• My heart aches for you
  
• I can’t wait to be in your arms again
  
• I'm here and you’re there. There doesn’t know how lucky it is.
  
• As long as I have you, I am always with you
  
• I can’t stand missing you this much
  
• I imagine kissing you to fall asleep at night and wake up feeling your arms around me
  
• 1000 miles away and you are still right here in my heart
  
• You are far from my eyes, but close to my heart
  
• Being away from you is the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do
  
• I’d walk a thousand miles to touch you tonight
  
• Our love keeps me warm when your arms aren’t here to hold me
  
• When I get sad, I just close my eyes and imagine you next to me
  
• My dream come true would be waking up next to you
  
• I would wait forever to be with you
  
• I love your ways
  
• Be my teddy bear
  
• I’m all yours
  
• You are perfect to me
  
• You take my breath away
  
• You are the best
  
• Love me forever
  
• The best is yet to come
  
• I love you more every day
  
• You are so beautiful
  
• Can’t get you out of my head
  
• I can’t stop thinking about you
  
• You are my perfect match
  
• I love you, my prince
  
• Even the heavens in all its majesty cannot compare to your wondrous smile
  
• Rains fall, winds blow, the sun shines… it all comes naturally, just like loving you
  
• Your smile makes my heart beat faster
  
• I love you more than anything in the world
  
• Your laughter fills my world with happiness
  
• Your smile melts my heart
  
• You are my everything, my love
  
• Thank you for loving me
  
• You are my world
  
• 8 letters, 3 words, 1 meaning. I LOVE YOU
  
• My love for you will never die
  
• Everything comes and goes, but my love for you will last forever
  
• I love you for being you
  
• Baby, you’re the best thing that ever happened to me
  
• I hold you in my heart
  
• My love for your grows every day
  
• I am madly, deeply in love with you
  
• I’m so happy to be in love with you
  
• You are the beat in my heart, you are the fear in my soul, you are the tears I cry, you are my world
  
• Loving you is like breathing, so effortless and natural, but I’d die without it
  
• Loving you is all I want to do
  
• You brighten my days
  
• I thank God for you
  
• You hold my heart in your hands
  
• I would walk through fire for you
  
• Have I told you lately that I love you?
  
• I wish I had the words to tell you how I feel
  
• You are the icing on my cake
  
• You are my best friend, my love
  
• You are my sunshine
  
• I will tell you I love you with my last breath
  
• Till death do us part, I will always love you
  
• I’m all yours baby, heart, body and soul
  
• You are the man of my dreams
  
• With you, my life is complete
  
• Making you my husband/life is my greatest achievement
  
• When I put my arms around you, I know that I am home
  
• In case you didn’t know, I’ll be loving you always and forever
  
• Loving you is effortless
  
• You are one in a million
  
• Thank you for loving me
  
• I love the way you love me
  
• You are always on my mind
  
• You are everything to me
  
• My happy place is with you
  
• The only thing that makes me sad is that I can’t possible tell you how much I love you
  
• LOVE doesn’t even begin to describe what I feel for you
  
• You amaze me
  
• You inspire me

romantic coupon

melampaulah kan coupon cmni????
kalo sape ade laki koang copy pastu print, then letak dlm envelope post kat hubby koang, sure die cakap romantik nyer wife aku! hehehehe
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D' ABC of L.O.V.E

• Advocate for your lover whenever they need you.
• Be a great team player.
• Collect your thoughts before a confrontation.
• Discuss, don’t nag.
• Exercise your ability to turn them on.
• Find new adventures to embark on together.
• Give them reasons why you love them each and every day.
• Hold your partner’s hand while you walk down the street.
• Include each other in decision making.
• Judge not the mistakes of the past.
• Kiss slowly, forgive quickly.
• Learn your partner’s love language.
• Make love when he needs to be loved.
• Never put him down in front of others.
• Open your mind to change.
• Plan grand gestures of love for them every so often.
• Quit your bad habits.
• Resist temptation.
• Support to your partner’s dreams and desires.
• Trust your partner more than you trust anyone else.
• Underestimate not the power of praise.
• Value his attributes and strengths.
• Welcome his advice.
• X out selfishness.
• Yield and compromise when your partner needs you to.
• Zeal and creativity is how you please him between the sheets.

Ten Best American Idol Love Songs

1. David Cook -- Hello
2. Chris Daughtry -- Have You Ever Really Loved a Woman?
3. Christina Christian -- Ain’t No Sunshine
4. Carrie Underwood -- Alone
5. Kelly Clarkson -- A Moment Like This
6. Jason Castro -- Hallelujah
7. Lakisha Jones -- And I am Telling You I’m Not Going
8. Bo Bice -- In a Dream
9. Ruben Studdard -- A Whole New World
10. Justin Guarini -- Let’s Stay Together

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wach d videos & read more here...

10 Ways To A Healthy Relationship

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1.Don't nag!
2.Resolve arguments quickly... and REALLY resolve them!
3.Forgive and truly forget.
4.Don't bring up past problems when addressing a new one.
5.Constantly remind your love of how much you love them.
6.Never lose your respect for your partner.
7.Even though you are a couple, never lose your self-identity.
8.Schedule and never break a weekly date with your partner. Even if the date involves staying home.
9.Don't lie or be unfaithful to your partner.
10.Make it a point to say and show that you love your partner every day!

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credit to:lovingyou

love quotes

We were given:

Two hands to hold.

To legs to walk.

Two eyes to see.

Two ears to listen.

But why only one heart?

Because the other was given to someone else.

For us to find.

Signs of love...

What he’ll do:

• Put you on his “A” list (pay attention -- You'll know if you're not on it)
  
• Introduce you to his family
  
• Make plans for the future (near and far)
  
• Do things outside of his “box” with you
  
• Share his secrets and his dreams for the future with you
  
• Worry about impressing your friends
  
• Come right over when you ask him to
  
• Try to do things that comfort you or relieve some of your stress (like surprise you with dinner on a night you are working, rub your feet, or ask about your day)
  
• Appreciate and reciprocate your feelings and your actions like giving you a massage after he gets one from you, doing the dishes after dinner, or sending you a gift

What she’ll do:

• Share her embarrassing moments and fantasies with you
  
• Little things all throughout the day that let you know she’s thinking about you
  
• Fantasize about her life with you, getting married, having kids, growing old, traveling the world, etc.
  
• Tease you
  
• Hang out with your mother or talk to her on the phone
  
• Appreciate and reciprocate your feelings and your actions, like offering to pay for dinner, getting tickets to a game or event she knows you’ll love, or cooking for you
  
• Ask questions about your life -- past, present, and future
  
• Flirt with you

How you’ll feel:

• Excited, yet relaxed
  
• Vulnerable, yet strong
  
• Comfortable enough to be yourself in front of them
  
• Like you want to include them in everything (but you won't desert your usual crowd to be in a relationship with them)
  
• You’ll miss them when they’re not around
  
• You can’t wait to see them, talk to them, play with them, and kiss them
  
• You’ll find yourself wanting to make plans to have them all to yourself
  
• You’ll have urges to do romantic things (maybe on the verge of stalker-like things) that you never thought you’d never do

Signs that it’s not love:

• They blow you off or cancel dates
  
• Talking about commitment makes either of you uneasy or nervous
  
• Either of you are seeing other people
  
• Things are moving too quickly for one of you
  
• You find your partner lacking when compared to other people
  
• You watch a love scene in a movie or hear a love song and you feel a strong longing or desire for what you don’t have

Tips before you commit:

• Take the time to compare who you have with who you know deep down that you desire and deserve. Likewise, compare the relationship you have with the one you know you really want.
  
• Pay attention to how they treat their friends, family, business associates, and strangers. This is a good indication of how they will treat you over time and a big insight into their overall character.
  
• Ask yourself how well you know them and how well they know you

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Relationship...

For a relationship to have a solid foundation to build on you need:

Caring about each other

Respect for each others needs

Communication between each other

Truth with each other on all things big and small

Commitment to each other and the relationship you have!

Simple, but truly needed in a sound relationship

Romantic Nicknames

All Mine Angel Angel Baby Angel Bunny Angel Eyes Angel Face Angel Girl Babe Babes Baby Baby Angel Baby Bear Baby Boo Baby Cakes Baby Doll Baby Doodle Baby Face Baby Girl Baby Love Babycheeks Babylicious Bad Kitty Beautiful Big Daddy Big Guy Big Kitty Blue Eyes Boo Bear Boo-Boo Boogie Bear Boy Toy Braveheart Bright Eyes Brown Sugar Bubba Bubbles Bunny Buttercup Butterfly Butterscotch Canoodle Captain Captain Underpants Care Bear Cheesecake Cherry Pie Chickadee Chocolate Chocolate Bunny Chocolate Drop Cookie Cool Breeze Cowboy Cuddle Bear Cuddle Bug Cuddle Bunny Cuddle Cakes Cuddles Cupcake Cupid Cuppy Cake Cutie Cutie Pie

Cutiehead Darling Darlington Dear Dearest Dearest One Dearheart Deep Waters Devil Dimples Doll Face Doodle Bug Dove Dreamlover Firecracker Firefly Fluffy Goose Gorgeous Gumdrop Gummie Bear Handsome Hon Honey Honey Bear Honey Bee Honey Bunch Honey Bunny Honey Buns Honey Lamb Honey Lips Honey Love Honey Muffin Honey Pie Honey Plum Hot Honey Hot Mama Hot Stuff Hotcakes Hottie Hubby Wubby Ironman Kit Kat Kitten Lady Bug Lemon Drop Little Kinky Little Mama Little Monkey Little Muppet Lollipop Love Love Angel Love Bear Love Bug Love Heart Love Muffin Love Nugget Love Sponge Loveable Lovealump Lovebird Lover

Lover Boy Lover Bunny Lovey Dovey Lovie Luvs Mami Merlin Mi Amor Mistress Monkey Muffin Munchkin My Angel My Beloved My Buttercup My Heart My King My Lion My Love My Lovely My Queen Papa Bear Papi Passion Fruit Petal Poohbear Pookie Pookie Bear Precious Precious Angel Precious Princess Pretty Lady Prince Prince Charming Princess Puddin' Pumpkin Punkin' Puppy Pussycat Red Rose Scrumptious Sex Kitten Sex Machine Sex Muffin Sexy Sexy Bear Sexy Kitten Sexy Lady Sexy Legs Sexy Pie Sexy Sweet Thang Smoochie Poo Snickerdoodle Snookie Snookums Snow Bunny Snow Pea Snowflake Snuggle Bear Snuggle Bug Snuggle Bunny Snuggle Pooh

Snuggles Sparky Star Starfish Starshine Stinker Stud Muffin Sugar Sugar Babe Sugar Bear Sugar Biscuit Sugar Britches Sugar Buns Sugar Cookie Sugar Free Sugar Lips Sugar Mama Sugar Muffin Sugar Pants Sugar Pie Sugar Pumpkin Sugarplum Sunshine Sunshine Superman Sweet Sweet Baby Sweet Cheeks Sweet Kitten Sweet Lover Sweet Pea Sweet Peach Sweet Stuff Sweet Tart Sweetheart Sweetie Sweetie Pie Sweetness Sweets Sweetums Sweety Cakes Tadwinks Teddy Teddy Bear Temptress Tiger Tigress Tootsie Roll Tulip Tweetums Twinkie Twinkle Toes Waffles Wiggles Witchy Woobie Wookie Wookums Wuggle Bear Wuggles Yummy Bear

Decoding (h)(i)(s) body language

Signs he’s not that into you:

• He leans away from you. Don’t mistake this for the masculine performance described above, however. If his attention turns elsewhere, he changes subjects, or loses his sparkle when he leans away from you, he is not doing it to show off his physique.
• He looks around the room, often meaning that he’s looking for something else to catch his attention.
• You notice him fidgeting more than you would expect from nerves. This says that he is bored or jittery for reasons that have nothing to do with you. Either way, he isn’t consumed with ecstasy in your presence, so he’s probably a fish you can throw back.
• His feet and body facing away from you. This mean that you are a side show to the main even he’s waiting for. If one doesn’t come along, he might settle for you, but that is not really good enough, so find a guy who gives you a full frontal.
• He yawns. Ok, this one is only excusable if you know he just came off of an 18 hour shift at the hospital saving people’s lives.
• He raises his eyebrows with insincere enthusiasm during your conversation. Unless it is surprise that you see, wide eyes and raised brows are just a more subtle expression than rolling his eyes.

Signs he is just looking to get it on:

• He puts his thumbs through his belt loops or tucked into the top of his pants, a natural response to his aching desire. Sometimes you’ll see a guy doing this purely to rest his hands. Look for other signs before you assume that the guy next to you in line at the post office is hoping to get some.
• He sits with his knees on either side of yours. You would be most likely to notice this in a bar or café setting where you are sitting quite close together anyway, but he finds a way (maybe subconsciously, maybe not) to bring you toward his groin area. Silly as it sounds, now that you are aware of it, you will be surprised at how often it happens.
• He positions himself within arms length of you. A nice guy (or a bad one really good at his game) won’t invade your space enough to make you feel uncomfortable, but he’ll get closer than he does to other women. However, physical intimacy that surprises you or makes you uncomfortable is a big red flag. That indicates he doesn’t have respect for your boundaries and isn’t interesting in falling in love with you.

Signs he’s performing the same act that he’s done for many other women:

• He acts surprised when you don’t have the reaction he expected to something he did or said. He’s performed for so many gullible girls before that he can’t believe it when you don’t fall for his tricks.
• He begs for you to do something (he might show you his pouty lip, bat his eyes, or even hold his hands in a prayer position trying to be irresistible) because he’s used to getting his way regardless of whether the other person wants to or not.
• You feel like he is pushing your boundaries, physically or verbally. If he does this, you can assume that he thinks of you as an easy target.
• He tilts his head back often, a pose of domination. Sometimes a man will take this stance instinctually as a display of masculinity, but this positive sign is subtle. Obvious and consistent back head tilts can be a sign that he lacks humility and has an aggressive nature.

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