Tuesday, October 02, 2012

Women Against Abuse

Amanda Fong, a 19-yo teenage girl who get married at young age to Calven Chik. I don't know either of these 2 homo sapiens but people all over the world get to know them because of the facebook-exposure-abuse-case. Yesterday, Calven Chik told the court that he's not guilty (yeay rite, you are not guilty until proven!). But when i 1st watched the video last month, i was so speechless and i cant imagine myself as Amanda. What she had to go tru at her age and she was 2-mo pregnant at that time. Doesn't matter if she was having a scandal at that time (DOESN'T MATTER!), but a GENTLEMAN will not abuse a woman! The video showed how cruel was Calven when he non-stop beating her , he even bang her head to the sofa and to the floor! what kinda man (read human being) is that? Even though he was so mad and angry at that time, he should not never put his hand to his pregnant-wife at the 1st place! She was physically and mentally abuse by her own hubby who the 1 that should protect and love her, she was so weak and fragile to be beaten like that.

What is happening to the world now? Why people get married when they only want to hurt their wives or be beaten by the hubbies? Why women want to get married when they only want to marry the money? How can the parents let the daughters to get married at young ages? So many questions popping in my mind right now, i just dont understand. What will happen in the future? What will happen to our children, to the young generation?

Women abuse cases are becoming serious nowadays, the report of the cases is increasing every day. What are the gov initiative to overcome the increasingly cases of women abuse? What have been done? Is the Women National Policy just another useless paperwork? I can see only from the NGOs point of view, they are very active in protecting and  helping the victims.

I hope all of you women out there, be brave, stop being afraid of the abuser, do come forward and lodge a police report whenever you feel like you are being abused by your spouse, boyfriend or family members.

To MAN, please treat your wife/ girlfriend/ daughter kindly and gentle. Don't ever try to beat a woman when you already knew she is weak and cannot fight you back. Be a gentleman!

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